Why High Achievers Feel Isolated: The Cost of Success
October 16, 2024

In this episode of the Big Fish Cares Podcast, host Benny Fisher dives into the emotional challenges of high achievers in "Why High Achievers Feel Isolated: The Cost of Success." Benny explores why success often leads to loneliness, disconnection, and how to overcome the hidden toll of achievement. Tune in for strategies on balancing ambition with meaningful connections.

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Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction to Success and Loneliness

02:00 - Benny’s Personal Story of Success and Isolation

05:30 - The Emotional Toll of High Achievement

10:00 - Why Success Leads to Disconnection

15:00 - Balancing Ambition and Relationships

20:45 - Overcoming Loneliness as a High Achiever

25:30 - The Role of Mindfulness and Spirituality

30:00 - Building a Supportive Community

35:00 - Takeaways and Closing Thoughts

The Power of Vulnerability Lessons in Growth and Healing
October 3, 2024
In this episode of The Big Fish Cares Podcast, we dive deep into the transformative power of vulnerability with Christine Marie, founder of the Knowing Framework. Through personal stories and professional insights, Christine explores how embracing emotional vulnerability can lead to profound growth and healing. She sheds light on "big T" and "little t" traumas, explaining how understanding these concepts can help us navigate our emotional landscape and cultivate resilience. Christine also touches on how emotional intelligence is crucial in overcoming challenges, fostering authentic connections, and discovering how embracing your authentic self can unlock new levels of healing and success. πŸ“² Connect with Christine Marie: πŸ‘©‍πŸ’» Website: www.christenemarie.com πŸ“§ Email: hello@christenemarie.com πŸ‘ Facebook: Christene Marie Facebook πŸ“Έ Instagram: Christene Marie Instagram Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction: Big T vs. Little t Trauma 02:00 – Guest Introduction: Christine Marie’s Background 05:45 – The Power of Branding and Authenticity 08:20 – The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Business 12:45 – Entering Discomfort and Growth Through Masterminds 16:50 – Recognizing Emotional Patterns and Healing Journey 21:00 – Christine’s Personal Reckonings with Trauma 27:30 – Marriage and Relationships: The Impact of Intuition 33:15 – Learning to Heal Through Emotional Vulnerability 38:45 – Knowing Framework and the Role of Emotional Connection 45:30 – Self-Discovery: The Journey of Knowing Yourself 52:00 – Daily Practices for Personal Growth and Alignment 56:40 – The Role of Creativity and Stillness in Healing 1:02:00 – Overcoming Challenges Through Resilience 1:08:15 – The Future: Christine’s Upcoming Projects and Book
A Journey of Healing and Forgiveness
September 19, 2024
In this episode of The Big Fish Cares Podcast, we explore one man's journey of healing and forgiveness. Through emotional struggles and personal growth, we discuss how trauma can lead to transformation, the importance of seeking help, and the power of resilience and empathy in overcoming life's darkest moments. Join us on this powerful path to healing. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Setup 02:15 The Call from Ryan 05:32 Ryan's Story and Struggles 10:48 Reflecting on Personal Trauma 15:03 Discussing the Impact of Trauma 19:12 The Rehab Journey 23:45 Confronting Dark Topics 28:22 The Importance of Healing 32:40 Reflecting on Forgiveness 36:55 Cancel Culture and Podcast Backlash 41:20 Navigating Through Criticism 45:38 Lessons from Personal Experiences 49:12 Processing Rage and Forgiveness 52:45 Facing the Consequences of Controversy 58:02 Support from Friends and Family 1:02:16 Faith, Resilience, and Future Plans 1:06:43 Closing Thoughts and Looking Ahead
How to Balance Ambition and Inner Peace as an Entrepreneur
September 5, 2024
Join Gino Wickman on this episode of the Big Fish Cares Podcast as he shares how to balance ambition with inner peace as an entrepreneur. Learn practical tips to thrive in business without sacrificing your well-being. Watch now and discover how to achieve success while staying centered. Don't forget to subscribe for more insights and tips on mastering your entrepreneurial journey! Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Gino Wickman and the Big Fish Cares Podcast 02:15 - Understanding Driven Entrepreneurs and Their Challenges 07:40 - The Concept of Ego and True Self 13:55 - Shedding Emotional Layers for Inner Peace 19:30 - Techniques for Achieving Work-Life Balance 25:45 - Meditation and Mindfulness for Entrepreneurs 32:10 - Gino Wickman's Insights on Inner Peace 37:25 - The Role of Forgiveness in Personal Growth 43:00 - Overcoming Fear and Embracing Love 48:15 - Balancing Ambition with Inner Peace 54:00 - The Power of Responding vs. Reacting 59:45 - Gino Wickman's Three Discoveries 1:05:20 - The Impact of Plant Medicine on Ego 1:11:00 - How to Stay Present and Aware in Business 1:16:45 - Building Productive and Peaceful Business Practices 1:23:30 - Conclusion: Key Takeaways for Entrepreneurs 1:29:00 - Invitation to Subscribe and Connect with the Podcast
Steve Toprani: From Solving Cold Cases and Battling Crime Lords to Becoming a Sports Agent
August 8, 2024
In this riveting episode of The Big Fish Cares Podcast, host Benny Fisher sits down with Steve Toprani, a distinguished attorney with a rich history in litigation, media relations, and client advocacy. With over 20 years of legal practice, Steve has worn many hats, from serving as Pennsylvania's youngest district attorney to representing high-profile clients in the sports and entertainment industry. Key Moments: 00:00:00 - From Troubles to Triumph 00:06:38 - Taking on Corruption and Cold Cases 00:13:14 - Running for Office and Political Beliefs 00:19:31 - Criminal Justice Reform and Sentencing Intervention 00:25:43 - Life's Challenges and Communication 00:31:59 - The Cowboy Nature and the Excitement 00:38:21 - Being Present in My Children's Lives 00:44:32 - Practicing People Law 00:51:04 - Putin's Power and Russia's Ambitions 00:57:42 - Russian Military and Lack of Heart 01:04:13 - Rabbit Trail and Rock Concert in Russia 01:10:23 - Writing and Reflecting on Life's Experiences 01:16:50 - The Imperfection of Perfection 01:22:58 - The Power of Connecting with Others 01:29:54 - Reflecting on Healing and Helping Others 01:36:24 - The Need for Approval and Validation Solving a Decade-Old Cold Case: Steve recounts the emotional journey of bringing justice to a family who lost their son. Through relentless dedication and a grand jury presentment, Steve's efforts led to the arrest and conviction of the perpetrators, providing closure after years of uncertainty. Facing Life-Threatening Danger: Discover the harrowing experience when Steve's fight against a sophisticated heroin distribution ring put his own life at risk. Hear about the measures taken to protect his family and the ultimate success in dismantling the operation. Insights from Moscow: Steve shares intriguing anecdotes from his time in Moscow, where he engaged with influential figures and predicted future political landscapes, offering a unique glimpse into global political dynamics. Steve’s extensive background includes his role as General Counsel for TNT Promotions/Roy Jones Jr. Presents, where he negotiated major contracts with HBO Sports, ESPN, and FOX Sports. His legal prowess has safeguarded the interests of professional athletes, political figures, media personalities, and more. Join us for an inspiring and eye-opening conversation that delves into the challenges and triumphs of Steve Toprani's remarkable career. πŸ”— Connect with our Guest Steve Toprani: https://www.rsysports.com/
From Graphic Design to Real Estate Excellence: Dionne Malush’s Inspiring Journey
July 25, 2024
Join Benny Fisher on The Big Fish Cares Podcast as he sits down with Dionne Malush, co-owner of Realty ONE Group Gold Standard, to discuss her incredible journey in the Pittsburgh real estate industry. With a unique blend of graphic design skills and a passion for continuous learning, Dionne has carved out a remarkable career, mentoring and training emerging professionals while staying ahead of industry trends. In this episode, Dionne shares powerful stories of overcoming adversity, including an emotional moment of gifting a car to a loved one and dealing with bullying as a teenager. She also talks about her dedication to Napoleon Hill’s principles, leading a Think and Grow Rich Mastermind for over six years, and her exciting upcoming podcast, "Shine On Success." Discover how Dionne’s experiences and commitment to education have shaped her career and life. Whether you're a real estate professional, an entrepreneur, or someone seeking inspiration, this episode offers valuable insights and motivation. Key Moments: 00:03:14 - Grieving and Honoring Loved Ones 00:06:35 - Traumatic Life Experiences 00:09:51 - Dealing with Loss and Tragedy 00:13:14 - Embracing Pain and Finding Healing 00:16:28 - A Beautiful Ending 00:19:50 - Beginning of Personal Development Journey 00:23:09 - The Responsibility to Take Care of Others 00:26:15 - Personal Development and Overcoming Adversity 00:29:46 - Exploring the Softer Side 00:33:10 - Exploring Stillness and Self-Programming 00:36:24 - The Addiction of Giving 00:39:47 - Stillness and the Concept of Time 00:42:51 - Letting Go and Finding Peace 00:45:53 - Healing from the Past & Gaining Clarity 00:49:00 - Embracing Pain and Being Vulnerable 00:52:17 - Comment Responses Tune in to hear Dionne’s inspiring journey and learn how to achieve success despite adversity. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more inspiring content! For more about Dionne Malush and to connect with her, visit www.DionneMalush.com πŸ”— Connect with our Host Benny Fisher: https://www.bennyfisher.com/
Surviving a Near-Death Experience: Michael Venidis on Resilience and Purpose
July 11, 2024
In this gripping episode of The Big Fish Cares Podcast, host Benny Fisher sits down with Michael Venidis, the Chief Experience Officer at RYNO Strategic Solutions. Michael shares his incredible journey of resilience, self-discovery, and unwavering dedication to helping others. From a harrowing near-death experience to rebuilding his life and career, Michael's story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the human spirit. Tune in as he recounts the life-changing moments that shaped him, his passion for personal growth, and his mission to inspire others to live their most fulfilling lives. Michael Venidis's incredible journey is one you won't want to miss. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more inspiring stories and valuable insights! Key Moments: 00:03:52 - A Terrifying Encounter on the Streets of Phoenix 00:07:28 - Confrontation on the Street 00:11:18 - The Curious Incident of the Misfired Gunshot 00:14:25 - Being Pistol Whipped in the Head 00:17:27 - Surviving a Shooting Incident 00:20:58 - Overcoming Adversity and Finding Work 00:24:10 - The Career Journey 00:27:17 - The Power of Community and Problem Solving 00:30:43 - The Importance of Grit and Determination 00:33:46 - Overcoming Challenges in School 00:36:50 - Becoming a Rock Star 00:40:18 - Overcoming Adversity and Creating Success 00:43:33 - Reflections on Family and Loss 00:47:27 - The Impact of My Wife on My Life 00:50:53 - The Power of Discipline and Inspiration 00:54:19 - Conclusion of the Arizona trip πŸ”— Connect with Michael Venidis: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mvenidis πŸ”— Connect with RYNO: https://rynoss.com/
Embrace Pain to Avoid Suffering: Brian Bogert's Inspiring Journey
June 27, 2024
In this powerful episode of The Big Fish Cares Podcast, host Benny Fisher sits down with Brian Bogert, a remarkable human behavior and performance coach. At just 7 years old, Brian faced a life-changing injury that severed his left arm, but his story is one of resilience and triumph. Discover how Brian's unique approach to connecting with one's authentic self can revolutionize your personal and professional life. Learn about his philosophies on embracing pain, putting people before profits, and the importance of who before what. Brian's journey is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of intentional living. Don't miss this inspiring conversation! Key Moments: 00:04:07 - The Power of a Singular Choice 00:08:21 - Overcoming Limitations and Beliefs 00:12:28 - Growing Up with a Disability 00:16:42 - Embracing Pain to Avoid Suffering 00:21:05 - Embracing Pain for Significant Growth 00:25:09 - Overcoming Anger and Improving Relationships 00:29:31 - Embracing the Pain of Conversation 00:33:39 - The Power of Authenticity 00:38:02 - Surrendering and Creating Safe Spaces 00:42:20 - Unpacking the Patterns of the Past 00:49:55 - The Importance of Communication and Receiving 00:54:14 - The Philosophy of Giving and Receiving 00:58:26 - The Evolving Definition of Receiving 01:02:48 - Living in Congruence with Oneself and Embracing Constant Evolution πŸ”— Connect with Brian Bogert: https://brianbogert.com/
Kyree Oliver on Conquering Adversity and Redefining Success
June 13, 2024
Join host Benny Fisher in a thought-provoking conversation with Kyree Oliver on The Big Fish Cares Podcast. Kyree, a former Division One collegiate football offensive lineman, shares his journey from humble beginnings in a mobile home to becoming a beacon of hope for hundreds of men struggling with relationships, self-worth, and fulfillment. In this episode, Kyree challenges the notion of an even playing field, shedding light on the systemic barriers and biases that shape our lives. He delves into the importance of rewriting our own narratives and healing generational traumas to break free from the cycle of hardship. Discover Kyree's profound insights on undoing inherited biases, nurturing meaningful connections, and finding true fulfillment beyond material success. This episode is a testament to resilience, courage, and the transformative power of self-awareness. Key Moments: 00:04:43 - The Interview Process 00:09:32 - The Difference Between Coaching and Mentorship 00:13:48 - Navigating the Middle Ground 00:18:06 - The Power of Breaking Stereotypes 00:22:36 - Shifting the Narrative 00:26:51 - Spreading Light in a Dark Room 00:31:25 - Growing Up Christian 00:35:48 - Reflection and Self-Discovery 00:40:02 - The Importance of Doing More Digging 00:44:18 - Craft from the Beginning 00:48:57 - The Inner and Outer World Stories 00:53:29 - The Freedom to Be Who You Truly Are 00:58:02 - Unconditional Love and Reflection 01:02:52 - Striving to Live out my Purpose 01:07:33 - Finding Forgiveness for My Dad πŸ”— Connect with Kyree Oliver: https://www.kyree.com/ https://www.instagram.com/kyree/?hl=en
Jamie Munoz on Overcoming Challenges & Empowering Visionaries
May 30, 2024
Join Benny Fisher on The Big Fish Cares Podcast as he welcomes Jamie Munoz, Founder and Visionary of Catalyst Integrators. Jamie shares her journey of living her ideal EOS® Life, helping entrepreneurs maximize their potential through the Entrepreneurial Operating System. In this episode, Jamie opens up about profound personal losses, the power of resilience, and the importance of authentic leadership. Discover how she turned adversity into strength, embraced her unique identity, and continues to inspire others. Don’t miss this heartfelt and empowering conversation. Key Moments: 00:03:40 - The Role of Fractional Integrators in Organizations 00:07:10 - The Integrator Journey 00:10:59 - Childhood Shoplifting Adventures 00:14:41 - Seeking Acceptance and Love 00:18:16 - Spiritual Journey and Faith Journey 00:21:28 - Embracing Spirituality 00:25:28 - Embracing Faith and Finding the Gift 00:29:10 - Positive Intelligence and Mental Toughness 00:33:02 - Life's Challenges and Finding Purpose 00:36:50 - Turning Pain into Presence 00:40:45 - Self-Selection and Changing Identity 00:44:27 - The Light and Darkness within Us 00:48:06 - The Lack of Uniqueness in Track Homes 00:51:30 - The Challenges of Home Improvement 00:55:03 - Helping Others on Their Journey 00:58:31 - Q&A with Jamie on The Big Fish Cares Podcast πŸ”— Connect with Jamie Munoz: https://www.catalystintegrators.com/
Unlocking the Secrets of Home Service Success
May 16, 2024
Join us for an insightful episode of The Big Fish Cares Podcast as we dive deep into the world of home service entrepreneurship with Tommy Mello, the mastermind behind A1 Garage Doors, a $200M home service empire. From seizing opportunities in various industries to mastering the art of branding and recruitment, Tommy shares invaluable insights and stories that have fueled his remarkable success. Discover why competing on price is a losing strategy, the transformative power of compound interest, and the essential principles for achieving work-life balance while scaling your business. Tommy's journey is not just about financial success; it's also about embracing health, wellness, and a higher purpose. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that will inspire you to elevate your business and life to new heights. Tune in now and join the ranks of home service millionaires! Key Moments: 00:00:00 - Opportunities in Different Industries 00:04:55 - The Sales Process and Scaling Opportunities 00:09:56 - Buying Experiences and Stories 00:15:09 - The Importance of Branding and Recruitment 00:20:09 - Investing in Branding in the Business 00:25:01 - The Pitfalls of Competing on Price 00:34:28 - The Power of Compound Interest 00:39:10 - The Cost of Gambling on Bad Ideas 00:43:49 - The Shift in Identity 00:48:42 - Principles for Success and Work-Life Balance 00:53:17 - The Importance of Health and Wellness 00:57:57 - The Freedom Event and Spiritual Beliefs 01:03:15 - Belief in Heaven and a Bigger Purpose 01:08:14 - Recognizing the Importance of Growth and Scaling 01:13:02 - Experiencing the Business in Real Life πŸ”— Connect with Tommy Mello: https://homeserviceexpert.com/ πŸ”— Connect with A1 Garage Door: https://a1garage.com/ πŸ”— Mentioned on Podcast: Freedom Event 2024: https://get.homeservicefreedom.com/freedom-event-2024
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